- If you get a flat tire on the interstate, whom do you call?
- What should you do if your car doesn't start?
- If you get into a minor fender bender, what should you do?
- If you have an issue with your apartment, how do you get it fixed?
About one month after I graduated from high school, I moved out of my parents' home for the first time. Freedom! No curfew! No rules! I had been waiting for this day for years. " When I graduate from high school, I am so outta here!" Shortly after moving out, though, I realized I wasn't quite as well-prepared as I thought I was. One of my similarly immature friends was telling me about a minor car mishap with another driver. She hadn't known how to handle it, like the exchange of car insurance information and whether or not the police should be called. Her boss gave her advice, but it made me realize that I didn't have a clue what to do either. And I quickly realized I didn't have a clue about a lot of things. It gave me a slight panic attack. By now, most high school seniors have started their last year of high school before embarking on the journey of adulthood. Poised on the precipice of the rest of their life, they can't possibly be prepared for everything they will experience. Indeed, if I had known the challenges that awaited me in my not-so-hard adult life, I probably would have curled up in the fetal position and locked my door. Ideally, young adults should be given responsibility in increasing doses so they aren't totally dependent on their parents today and mostly independent tomorrow. So how can you prepare the graduate in your life to face this world? 1. Finances. Do they have accounts set up? Do they understand how those accounts work? Not that anyone writes checks anymore, but supposedly one of my teachers knew someone who thought she still had money in her account as long as she had checks to write. Whether it's true or not, it's still a useful story. As a newly independent adult, I operated on a mostly cash budget. I had my own credit card; but it had a small limit, so I couldn't charge much. I didn't have a lot of extra cash; but then again, neither did my friends. Our needs were small, and our wants even smaller. To learn to use credit responsibly, you may want to start out with a secured credit card. 2. Cooking/Grocery shopping. I had some cooking skills when I moved out, but it was mainly how to feed my meat-and-potatoes family. While potatoes were cheap, meat was not. I hadn't done the grocery shopping at home, so I didn't realize meat was so expensive. I did my best to decrease my food spending by shopping at stores like Aldi or finding the quick-sale bins at other supermarkets, but if only the $4 a day cookbook had been available then! Print out a copy for your grad. 3. Catastrophes, mostly minor. As befitting my budget, I drove a really unreliable car. It left me stranded more than once, but I'd always had my dad to call. Except now he wasn't in the same city. And when I needed to see a medical specialist, I had to figure out how to handle that too. Now these things seem so easy to handle; but as a newly independent adult, they felt overwhelming. By thinking about which situations may be faced, you can provide your graduate with a list of phone numbers and scenarios. For example: