A recent survey -- conducted by CreditCards.com -- revealed about 85% of Americans are reluctant to talk about their credit card debt with someone they first met. That is a sharp increase from an identical poll in 2008 when 80% said they would be standoffish about the topic. "High debt is a badge of shame even when many of us share the pain of a struggling economy," said Michael Solomon, professor of marketing and director of the Center for Consumer Research at Saint Joseph's University in Philadelphia. "Unlike physical problems, it seems like an ailment we brought upon ourselves. It implies a weakness of character and of course since we play the game of life using dollars as points, it also erodes our competitive spirit."
Compeau said there are several factors that play into debt's negative connotation, including an implied lack of self-control. Another factor is America's Protestant ethic, where "you are what you earn." Therefore a person's inability to make sufficient money for one's needs is seen as a failure. "And no one likes being seen as a failure, obviously," Compeau said. However, the survey found attitudes toward debt may be changing. The study found older generations are more reluctant to talk about their credit card debt. About 87% of those ages 50 to 64 said they were uncomfortable with the topic, compared to 79% of those ages 18 to 24. Part of the change in attitude could be the fact young people are getting into more debt. A recent Ohio State University study found a person born between 1980 and 1984 has credit card debt on average $5,689 higher than his or her parents at the same stage of life, and $8,156 higher than his or her grandparents. "Changing attitudes are one factor in this," said Lucia Dunn, co-author of the study and professor of economics at Ohio State. "I think debt has been gentrified by the media, Madison Avenue and the American retail sector. Basically, businesses have an incentive to make consumers willing to take on debt to enhance their sales. So the 'fly now, pay later' attitude has been pushed heavily in advertising for decades."