You engage. You interact. You come back. You go to shows. You download from iTunes, watch a few YouTube videos, share a playlist on Spotify and then, lo and behold, you come back to Pandora. It's the type of "daily habit" Marissa Mayer wants Yahoo! ( YHOO) to be. But, she too -- or at least her predecessors -- lacks focus.

That's why Pandora wins. Focus. Relax. Remember. Be a good lover, not a stubborn fighter.

-- Written by Rocco Pendola in Santa Monica, Calif.
Rocco Pendola is TheStreet's Director of Social Media. Pendola's daily contributions to TheStreet frequently appear on CNBC and at various top online properties, such as Forbes.

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