CHICAGO, April 1, 2013 /PRNewswire/ -- Why does America have the highest divorce rate in the world? (Photo: http://photos.prnewswire.com/prnh/20130401/PH85710-a ) (Photo: http://photos.prnewswire.com/prnh/20130401/PH85710-b ) Why do millions of US marriages break up each year, causing heartache in divorcing couples and their loved ones? How do we heal the heartache? How do we lower our high rate of divorce and breakups? Get the answers from Hadley Finch, a.k.a. Americaʼs Love Guide, who has been there and now helps others heal heartbreak and create the life and relationships you love. Hadley says Americans are lacking in love skills to overcome challenges, revitalize relationships, and experience lasting love. She admits thatʼs why sheʼd failed to repair the marital damage after her corporate superstar husband left her to date "a baby woman" in 1999. When he wanted to come home and make their marriage better than ever, Hadley lacked the love skills to do that. Back in 1999, she didnʼt know how to manage her anger over infidelity. Her husband said several times, "How can I come back to you, when your anger keeps pushing me away? Youʼll never let me forget this." "He was right, at least at the time of the betrayal and breakup in 1999," says Hadley. "That's when I was venting anger in destructive ways which produced results I didn't want, because I didn't know how to stop this vicious cycle and do something better." Now she makes sure you don't make that mistake or others that sabotage love and keep you stuck in pain and grief. In the past 13 years, she's discovered exactly what works and what doesn't work, when it comes to getting over lost love and getting all the love and happiness you deserve. In her new book, 911 Breakup Survival, she gives you the fastest, surest remedies that she'd used to heal her own trauma over lost love and repair her relationship with her ex to be loving co-parents to their children, now happily launched. And you will, too.