- Forty percent (40%) of respondents said they do not completely trust their partner to manage their combined finances
- More than one in three (38%) said they were only somewhat, slightly or not at all aware of their significant other’s debts
- And one-fifth (21%) said they sometimes hide their spending from their significant other
The Honeymoon’s OverThings like communication gaps and lack of budgeting could cause pain points for couples as they settle into married life. The survey found that 43 percent of couples admittedly don’t follow a budget, and half of couples jointly share household financial responsibilities. Female respondents said they were more likely to tackle groceries (48% vs. 25% of men), day-to-day expenses (28% vs. 26% of men) and the household budget (40% vs. 28% of men). Meanwhile, male respondents are more often solely responsible for investing decisions (45% vs. 27% of women), retirement savings (39% vs. 25% of women) and tax returns (44% vs. 32% of women). “While discussing money may not be the most romantic of gestures, it is important to not only have those financial discussions early in a relationship, but to continue having them throughout your marriage to help avoid financial surprises and minimize financial arguments,” Braxdale continued. Braxdale points out a few easy steps to get couples on the path to financial happiness:
- Talk about your financial situation before you walk down the aisle.
- Create a budget and talk about savings goals.
- Understand the amount and type of debt each partner brings into the marriage, agree on the plans to pay it off, and know your credit scores.
- Figure out how each partner manages money. You may be more frugal, but your partner may be more of a spender.
- Understand your investments and discuss how to meet your long-term goals.
- Don't leave it all to one partner. Joint participation in managing household finances is key.
About the SurveyThe research was conducted among 2,135 male and female respondents in total: 370 in the Generation Z age bracket (18 to 23 years old), 400 in Generation Y (24 to 35 years of age), 400 in Generation X (36 to 47 years of age), 457 baby boomers (48 to 66 years of age) and 400 respondents who were members of the Mature Generation (67 to 82 years of age). A total of 108 additional participants were current LearnVest subscribers. And all generations were weighted 50/50 male and female. The research was collected online via a 25-minute online interview conducted between September 26 and October 3, 2012. In order to qualify for the study, a respondent had to meet three requirements: The individual’s age had to fall within the five aforementioned generations, the respondent needed to live with their significant other and he/she had to have savings and investments totaling at least $10,000. The 108 LearnVest subscribers were recruited via email from the company database, and each respondent who completed the survey received a $10 Amazon.com gift card.About TD Ameritrade Holding CorporationMillions of investors and independent registered investment advisors (RIAs) have turned to TD Ameritrade’s (NYSE: AMTD) technology, people and education to help make investing and trading easier to understand and do. Online or over the phone. In a branch or with an independent RIA. First-timer or sophisticated trader. Our clients want to take control, and we help them decide how – bringing Wall Street to Main Street for more than 36 years. TD Ameritrade has time and again been recognized as a leader in investment services. Please visit TD Ameritrade’s newsroom or www.amtd.com for more information. Brokerage services provided by TD Ameritrade, Inc., member FINRA ( www.FINRA.org )/SIPC ( www.SIPC.org)/NFA ( www.nfa.futures.org). TD Ameritrade, Amazon, the Pew Research Center and LearnVest are separate and unaffiliated companies that are not responsible for one another’s services and policies.
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