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Breaking-up is Hard to Do - 3 Tax Tips to Help

Whether you have assets like Bill and Melinda Gates or not, taxes and estate planning considerations are important parts of property division in divorce. Divorce specialist Michelle Petrowski Buonincontri outlines three key points to keep in mind.

By Michelle Petrowski Buonincontri, CFP

“Breaking up is hard to do” as the song says. And taxes and estate planning considerations are important parts of property division in divorce, especially when a couple has assets like Bill and Melinda Gates. Keep in mind, many times couples have a pre- or post-nuptial agreement that will guide this process and hopefully make it a bit easier on the folks involved, and having knowledge about assets (property).

Michelle Petrowski, CFP®, CDFA® (formerly Michelle Buonincontri), is a financial planner, wealth manager, divorce financial strategist, and personal finance coach. She is the founder of Being in Abundance and Being Mindful in Divorce, as well as an avid volunteer at Savvy Ladies in NY and Fresh Start Women's Foundation in Phoenix, and has worked closely with the Arizona U.S. Service Members. Michelle has been featured in CNBC, Forbes, MarketWatch, Investment News, Yahoo Finance, and other media outlets. You can email her at or schedule a Q&A call with her here.

Michelle Petrowski Buonincontri, CFP

When dividing assets, we always want to try to compare apples to apples, and value assets on an after-tax basis in order to create equality. Now, although I’m not purporting to know anything about Bill and Melinda’s specific situation, here are few thoughts for considerations for them and non-Gates couples around dividing property in a divorce.

1. Tax considerations for rental properties:

Depreciation recapture. When assigning rental property during a division, depreciation recapture needs to be considered as it reduces a property’s cost basis, potentially increasing taxes due at sale and reducing net sale profits to the receiver of that asset.

Loss of the capital gains exclusion. In general, if this property is sold immediately, none of the gain will qualify for the $250,000 (single)/$500,000 (married) capital gains exclusion because of IRS use rules, further reducing the actual asset value received by the taxes paid at sale. Additionally, if a rental is turned into a primary residence, the spouse receiving the property will need to live there for at least 2 out of the 5 years preceding the sale so that some or all the capital gains exclusion may apply when the property is sold. Losing the capital gains exclusion reduces the value of the property ultimately received by that spouse. For the complete eligibility requirements, limitations on the exclusion amount, and exceptions to the two-year rule see Publication 523.

2. Transfers of property incidence to divorce & taxes:

According to IRC 1041, transfers of property incident to divorce generally do not have tax consequences (including gift tax) but there are four exceptions.

One of them, often not thought of, is a “gift of future interest.” A gift of future Interest does not qualify for the unlimited marital deduction, the annual gift exclusion ($15,000 in 2021), or the exclusion for gifts to spouses who are not U.S. citizens ($159,000 in 2021). Make sure it’s a transfer of a present interest. If it’s not, applicable gift tax should be calculated as part of a negotiated transfer of a future interest. Since this will be a cost/expense incurred to the transferor, perhaps the gift tax should be added to the value of the asset to give an offset of equal value to the transferring spouse in exchange for the gift of a future interest.

Here's an example of a gift of future interest:

Christine gives Tom the house as part of a divorce and while she, the “owning/giving” spouse, stays in the home as long as she lives. This is a “gift of future interest” to Tom, not a present interest because Christine, the owning/giving spouse, has not given up control of the home until her death.

3. Business considerations:

A business can be declared a marital asset, and the tax status of a company as an S corporation can affect the value of the company due to the lack of corporate income taxes.

· An asset appraisal is needed in addition to a business valuation because depreciated buildings, physical property, and intellectual property on the balance sheet will be undervalued and not reflect the assets actual value.

· When dealing with businesses, be aware of what type of business valuation is being used as it will impact the value being divided. Two typical methods of business valuation are fair market value and fair value. “Minority shareholder” discount or “marketability” discount can decrease the final appraised value of the business using fair market value, so ensure your attorney understands whether they benefit or hurt your interest.

· Examine and consider net operating losses as there is a tax value here that can be used to offset ordinary income at some point and reduce tax liability. This is particularly valuable to those in higher tax brackets looking to preserve and grow wealth.

· Review retained earnings for hidden assets, as this is one way to hide available income in a company. Review personal expenses covered by the business when identifying actual available income for the family. Personal expenses paid by the business should be added back to personal income for child support and spousal maintenance. For more information on this topic see How Can You Determine Self-employed-Business Income.

There are plenty more tax considerations, so having the right professionals to consult with can make a difference in your long-term financial outlook after divorce.

Let’s face it, divorce is a difficult time. It can be a long and complicated process, even when there are few assets, so be prepared legally, emotionally, and financially. Having information is key. Make sure you are informed, have copies of financial statements, personal and business tax returns (including all schedules), and debts.

Both the IDFA (Institute for Divorce Financial Analysts) and the ADFP (Association of Divorce Financial Planners) can be resources for finding a CDFA™ (Certified Divorce Financial Analyst) professional to support you during this time of transition. Consult a Certified Financial Planner for comprehensive advice on strategies that address your specific retirement planning needs; see or

About the author: Michelle Petrowski Buonincontri, CFP®, CDFA®

Michelle Petrowski Buonincontri, CFP®, CDFA®, is a divorce financial strategist, personal finance coach and mediator. She is the founder of Being Mindful in Divorce, Being in Abundance, and New Direction Financial Strategies LLC, as well as an avid volunteer at Savvy Ladies in NY and Fresh Start Women's Foundation in Phoenix, and she works closely with the Arizona National Guard. You can email her at

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