After meeting Angela, a woman 50 years his junior, in a bank parking lot, Carl Fiosche, a 79-year-old World War II veteran, says his life began to change -- for the worse.
Testifying on Monday before the Senate's Special Committee on Aging at a special session devoted to financial abuse of the elderly, Fiosche revealed how Angela professed her love for him and drove him to doctor appointments and the bank. But four months into the courtship, he discovered that Angela had taken control of his finances, stealing $70,000 in assets and his $109,000 home, while also opening new credit cards in his name. Fiosche says that as a result, he was forced to file for bankruptcy.A Rising Problem
The people elders trust most, such as caregivers and family members, are the most likely perpetrators. Indeed, according to the NCEA, family members commit half of the financial abuse crimes against the elderly. Caretakers and loved ones typically start with small crimes, such as stealing jewelry and blank checks, before moving on to larger items: coercing confused seniors to sign over the deeds to their homes, change their wills or liquidate their assets. "Because of Alzheimer's, dementia or overmedication, [elders] don't know one document from another and sign whatever is in front of them," Pickard says. Even when caught, prosecuting a family member can be extremely difficult. "Family members have a built-in defense if they get caught, which is 'Oh, she wanted me to have all that money'," says Paul Greenwood, head of the San Diego district attorney's elderly abuse unit. "It's hard to overcome that defense. We need to prove the individual didn't have the capacity to understand."| Reduce Your Risk! 10 ways to avoid becoming a victim |
| Never allow strangers into your home. They could attempt to steal checks or jewelry. |
| Never agree to have work done on your home without getting estimates from three reputable contractors. Scammers will promise to make home improvements, and take the money and run. |
| Ask banks and credit card companies to send duplicate copies of bills to a trusted adult child. |
| Shred unused credit card applications to avoid identity theft. |
| Never leave mail in your mailbox for the carrier to collect. Signed checks and information about bank accounts can be easily stolen this way. |
| Ask the bank to call you if a check over a certain amount is ever presented for payment. |
| Do not send money at the request of telephone solicitors, or give out a social security number or credit card numbers over the phone. |
| Perform a monthly overview of bank statements, and check credit history every three to six months. |
| Stay in touch with relatives so you aren't isolated, which makes you an easier target for criminals. |
| Perform a background check on caregivers. Make sure they come from a reputable agency. |
| Source: San Diego District Attorney's Office, San Diego Police Department |
Fight Back
But there are warning signs of abuse and ways to prevent it. Make a plan as to how an elder's finances will be handled once it becomes clear they need assistance, advises Sara Aravanis, director of the National Center on Elder Abuse. "It's a tough thing to think about because it involves issues of incapacitation and dependence, but it needs to be on the checklist." For example, concerned relatives, especially those who live far away, should ask to see monthly bank and credit card statements to keep a close eye on an elder's financial records, Greenwood says. Look for large withdrawals, unauthorized ATM usage or new names added to bank accounts. And run a credit check every three to six months to see if new bank accounts and lines of credit have been opened without an elder's knowledge. "Elders have no problem going to the doctors for a check up every month," he says. "They need a financial check up every 30 days as well."| Red Flags! 10 signs of possible financial exploitation |
| Sudden changes in a bank account or banking practices. |
| Placing additional names on bank accounts or credit cards. |
| Abrupt changes in a will or financial document. |
| Changes in, or establishment of, a power of attorney. |
| Unpaid bills despite available funds. |
| Unnecessary home repairs and services such as new roof or yard work. |
| Sudden appearance of previously distant relatives. |
| Changes in financial routines. |
| Establishment of unusual or unnecessary credit, such as a second mortgage. |
| Disappearance of funds or valuable possessions, such as jewelry. |
| Source: Recommendations from the office of Sen. John Breaux, chairman of the Senate's Special Committee on Aging |
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